CHERRI'S SISSYGASM TIPS
Cherri's advice
Thought I'd share some tips with y'all , as I get asked a fair bit about achieving a hands free prostate orgasm and how to do it right.
So here goes...
1. Preparation
The right set up really is key, It's not just about getting in the right mood. You are about to put objects in places you are maybe unfamiliar with. This can be painful and messy if not fully prepped first. So ALWAYS make sure you are clean first, have a long bath, shave the places you like being smooth best. Personally I like to really get in the girly mood, and use feminine bathroom products, listen to girly music and really feminize myself, find what works for you, but the most important part is making sure you are clean and also that you DOUCHE. You don't want anything to ruin whats about to go down, let alone toilet mishaps. So definitely make sure to douche!...
Before I bathe I like to get everything ready first, so I can move straight onto the fun part after I'm clean, however you may prefer to continue this girly prep longer and pick out lingerie and outfits after. Personally I prefer to do this before hand.
Get out all the toys you want to use, lay out your outfit, make sure you have everything ready, the last thing you want to happen is to realize you have forgotten something halfway through, as this will really be a buzzkill.
You need to have everything ready and in place so that nothing will ruin your girly thoughts and lusts...
2. Getting into it
Now although the idea of bouncing on a huge 12" bbc may get you very aroused, in reality if you are not used to 12"s of girth sliding in your boi pussy, then just going straight for it is gonna really hurt and be highly uncomfortable :( Enough to maybe put you off trying it again. So you first need to practice that pussy, and stretch it out. If it's something you have literally never tried before, only thought about, then you need to start SMALL. Some Boi's try fingers first, but that never really worked for me, as the 'S' spot ( Sissy Spot or G spot) is angled to be fingered by someone else , so it's hard to start reaching actual pleasure levels only using your own fingers. Personally I'd advise investing in an actual prostate massager, shop around and find one that works for you. This will help you get used to the feeling of something inside you and tickling areas you've most likely never felt before. Butt plugs will also help stretch you out, but most don't give much Insertion (Length) and are more useful for actually stretching the entrance.
The chances of you hitting a prostate orgasm the first time you ever try anal play is likely ZERO , So reign in your expectations, I have heard of others who cum hands free on their first time, but I'd say they are the lucky ones! This is gonna take PRACTICE. Move on up from prostate massagers onto actual dongs, 5", 6", 9" etc... only take what your body is telling you it can handle, as you move up sizes you may find the 'stuffed' feeling off putting or painful. so slow down, maybe you're at your limit?. Never just try to push through the pain as you may cause yourself serious injury!.
It's definitely a case of different strokes for different folks from here on in..
Many Boi's like to fully transition, take hormones or whatever , or just get off on staying limp (using cages etc) in which case the pleasures you are now getting from anal play are the main driving force.
Personally I find the whole thing HIGHLY arousing and like to stay rock hard, as feminisation for me is purely a sexual thing, not identity, but again. whatever works for you. The pleasures of reaching hands free orgasm are universal.
Start slow, push through the uncomfortable feeling, try just masturbating whilst you are penetrated so you can feel how nice it is to have your ass lips twitch upon orgasm whilst it is filled. Find a comfortable position for you to practice in, some like being on all fours and pushing back, others like laying on the flat of their backs in missionary and legs open wide. Personally I prefer to ride cowgirl and really arch my back and get my hips going, but again, find what works for you!.
Learn to EDGE, getting yourself to the brink of orgasm, then receding, just don't edge too much as sometimes your body will just give up getting so close every time for no reward, So learn when to give in and just blow your load.
Relax and remember Rome wasn't built in a day, keep finding what you like and remember, practice makes perfect!
3. REALLY getting into it
Now you have done the ground work, stretched your boi pussy out to match your desired toy/girth, It's now time to really start pushing your pleasure limits ...
Achieving a hands free orgasm is literally 99% in your head, if you ain't in the game for whatever reason , then don't expect to achieve one. you need to completely shut out the world, like everything, completely empty your thoughts and think only about whatever kink you have, being a girl, being a slut, whatever it is. let it consume you completely. let your body move in ways it never has before, as a man in your normal life you may have never spread your legs wide like you are now, never stuck your bum out and arched your back whilst you walk etc. but now is the time to let all these feelings out and to let them take control.
Prostate orgasm starts really deep inside, you will start to feel a hot feeling overcome you, try to time each clench you make with these hot feelings, let out a moan or scream, each time you touch your S spot and this warm feeling will get stronger.
Pushing down on your toy and really stuffing yourself and clenching in time with what your body is telling you it likes, is what will get you there, just remember to not let your mind get control. Don't overthink what you are doing, Be the slut you know you are and give yourself totally to that feeling.
The sensation of your cock exploding without being touched is probably the most pleasurable thing any man can experience, it's like good sex times ten!! it just takes a new way of conditioning your mind and body first, you really can cum just like a girl, with every thrust pushing you ever closer, You just need to practice and really let yourself go!!!!
Remember
PREPARATION + PRACTICE = PLEASURE.
Have fun girls!
Cherri x x x x x
Thought I'd share some tips with y'all , as I get asked a fair bit about achieving a hands free prostate orgasm and how to do it right.
So here goes...
1. Preparation
The right set up really is key, It's not just about getting in the right mood. You are about to put objects in places you are maybe unfamiliar with. This can be painful and messy if not fully prepped first. So ALWAYS make sure you are clean first, have a long bath, shave the places you like being smooth best. Personally I like to really get in the girly mood, and use feminine bathroom products, listen to girly music and really feminize myself, find what works for you, but the most important part is making sure you are clean and also that you DOUCHE. You don't want anything to ruin whats about to go down, let alone toilet mishaps. So definitely make sure to douche!...
Before I bathe I like to get everything ready first, so I can move straight onto the fun part after I'm clean, however you may prefer to continue this girly prep longer and pick out lingerie and outfits after. Personally I prefer to do this before hand.
Get out all the toys you want to use, lay out your outfit, make sure you have everything ready, the last thing you want to happen is to realize you have forgotten something halfway through, as this will really be a buzzkill.
You need to have everything ready and in place so that nothing will ruin your girly thoughts and lusts...
2. Getting into it
Now although the idea of bouncing on a huge 12" bbc may get you very aroused, in reality if you are not used to 12"s of girth sliding in your boi pussy, then just going straight for it is gonna really hurt and be highly uncomfortable :( Enough to maybe put you off trying it again. So you first need to practice that pussy, and stretch it out. If it's something you have literally never tried before, only thought about, then you need to start SMALL. Some Boi's try fingers first, but that never really worked for me, as the 'S' spot ( Sissy Spot or G spot) is angled to be fingered by someone else , so it's hard to start reaching actual pleasure levels only using your own fingers. Personally I'd advise investing in an actual prostate massager, shop around and find one that works for you. This will help you get used to the feeling of something inside you and tickling areas you've most likely never felt before. Butt plugs will also help stretch you out, but most don't give much Insertion (Length) and are more useful for actually stretching the entrance.
The chances of you hitting a prostate orgasm the first time you ever try anal play is likely ZERO , So reign in your expectations, I have heard of others who cum hands free on their first time, but I'd say they are the lucky ones! This is gonna take PRACTICE. Move on up from prostate massagers onto actual dongs, 5", 6", 9" etc... only take what your body is telling you it can handle, as you move up sizes you may find the 'stuffed' feeling off putting or painful. so slow down, maybe you're at your limit?. Never just try to push through the pain as you may cause yourself serious injury!.
It's definitely a case of different strokes for different folks from here on in..
Many Boi's like to fully transition, take hormones or whatever , or just get off on staying limp (using cages etc) in which case the pleasures you are now getting from anal play are the main driving force.
Personally I find the whole thing HIGHLY arousing and like to stay rock hard, as feminisation for me is purely a sexual thing, not identity, but again. whatever works for you. The pleasures of reaching hands free orgasm are universal.
Start slow, push through the uncomfortable feeling, try just masturbating whilst you are penetrated so you can feel how nice it is to have your ass lips twitch upon orgasm whilst it is filled. Find a comfortable position for you to practice in, some like being on all fours and pushing back, others like laying on the flat of their backs in missionary and legs open wide. Personally I prefer to ride cowgirl and really arch my back and get my hips going, but again, find what works for you!.
Learn to EDGE, getting yourself to the brink of orgasm, then receding, just don't edge too much as sometimes your body will just give up getting so close every time for no reward, So learn when to give in and just blow your load.
Relax and remember Rome wasn't built in a day, keep finding what you like and remember, practice makes perfect!
3. REALLY getting into it
Now you have done the ground work, stretched your boi pussy out to match your desired toy/girth, It's now time to really start pushing your pleasure limits ...
Achieving a hands free orgasm is literally 99% in your head, if you ain't in the game for whatever reason , then don't expect to achieve one. you need to completely shut out the world, like everything, completely empty your thoughts and think only about whatever kink you have, being a girl, being a slut, whatever it is. let it consume you completely. let your body move in ways it never has before, as a man in your normal life you may have never spread your legs wide like you are now, never stuck your bum out and arched your back whilst you walk etc. but now is the time to let all these feelings out and to let them take control.
Prostate orgasm starts really deep inside, you will start to feel a hot feeling overcome you, try to time each clench you make with these hot feelings, let out a moan or scream, each time you touch your S spot and this warm feeling will get stronger.
Pushing down on your toy and really stuffing yourself and clenching in time with what your body is telling you it likes, is what will get you there, just remember to not let your mind get control. Don't overthink what you are doing, Be the slut you know you are and give yourself totally to that feeling.
The sensation of your cock exploding without being touched is probably the most pleasurable thing any man can experience, it's like good sex times ten!! it just takes a new way of conditioning your mind and body first, you really can cum just like a girl, with every thrust pushing you ever closer, You just need to practice and really let yourself go!!!!
Remember
PREPARATION + PRACTICE = PLEASURE.
Have fun girls!
Cherri x x x x x
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